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Long Distance Care Giving

It's pretty common for families to live miles apart. Maybe your career took you to another state, or perhaps your parents decided to retire in a city with a warmer climate.

What would you do if you received a call that a loved one had fallen and broken a hip or had just been diagnosed with a serious illness? Most likely you would make a trip to insure your loved one is okay. But what happens after you leave? Who will take care of your loved one? Or maybe you are in a situation where it is impossible for you to make the trip. What do you do then?

At Meridian At Home, we would like to offer the following tips to help make long distance caregiving easier:

• First, Be Prepared: Gather important information before you need it! Find out where your loved one keeps important papers like medical, financial, and legal information. Who are their physicians? What medications do they take? What type of insurance do they have? When possible, keep a copy of this information handy should you need it. Based on the importance of "being prepared as a caregiver", we ve dedicated an entire video topic located in our Caregiver Video Library (link to library) focused on "Preparing For The Unexpected" (link to specific video topic), plus we ve also included a checklist of information to have handy in our Resources and Tips section of the website.
• Next, Determine Needs: If you re in a position to make the trip, then it s a perfect time to assess the needs of your loved one. But if you can't, then contact one of our Meridian At Home advisors to get a list of local resources, hospital social service departments, or talk to a physician for recommendations on assessing the needs of your loved one. (For more information, visit the "Recognizing The Signs That A Loved One Needs Help" video topic in our Caregiver Video Library (link to library).
• Keep Lists: Fumbling with phone numbers and contact information during a crisis is very stressful, so try to gather as much of this information before you need it. List the names and phone numbers of family members, friends, religious congregation members, or others who live close by and are in a position to assist you and your loved one. Being able to talk to someone when you can't reach your loved one can help ease concerns during this difficult time.
• Include Your Loved Ones in Decision Making: Be respectful and always include your loved ones in making decisions as long as they are physically and mentally able to do so. (For more information, visit the "Approaching A Loved One about Home Care" video topic in our Caregiver Video Library (link to library).
• Take Care Of Yourself: Remember, you can't do it all yourself! Prioritize what needs to be done. don't let guilt cause you to take on more than you can handle. Ask for help. (Again, for more information on this topic, visit the "Looking after Yourself" video topic in our Caregiver Video Library (link to library).

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